Monday 18 July 2011

Time for Love



So what is love? Hard to define.
Easier for us to give definition to what is a relationship rather than what is love. A relationship is a rational, conscious and calculated decision to put someone else's well being above your own. A commitment to stay true to one person despite the human failings of uncontrollable attraction, distractions and other trying situations. It is a disciplined and conscious effort to honor that person's feelings and needs above one's own. Commitments.

Love? Some would say that love is a rush of biochemicals, pining for that someone or also the feeling of the tightening of the loins. Love could also be the inexplicable feeling you get when you meet someone special. A beautiful and unique feeling when you found someone to share it with. Feelings.

One is lucky when they can combined the two together: Love and commitment in a relationship. Working both ways, both sides entering a commitment with eyes wide open, believing and working to make it better. What is true love, if not a joining of intimacy in heart, body and soul?

I found love when I found you...

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